How amazing is travelling? You get to escape from work, you get to escape from all the stresses of home, you land in a place where nobody knows you and you are free to be whoever you want for the remainder of that holiday.


As men, we often find ourselves fantasizing about what the women will be like in our country of destination. We imagine how they may be wooed by our nationality and our accent, or perhaps our skin colour.

The cold reality for most of us however is that it’s rarely ever as easy to meet women in this foreign country as our imaginations were telling us. Sure, your nationality and skin colour may give you advantages, but women are still women, and women can still be difficult at the best of times.

What I want to present to you guys today is a system I’ve used on a number of occasions to land in a new country with girls and a potential social circle ready to take me out and show me around. Not just one social circle, but MANY social circles. This will free you from the need to start cold-approaching the day you land, and leave you far more options than you otherwise would have had. The other great benefit, is that you end up being shown all of the hottest night spots without having to ‘wing’ it and hope you find somewhere decent based on 5 year old internet posts!

When you meet a girl and get her number, it’s easy to get caught up in the idea of a future romance together.

You really liked her and she seemed to like you too so the possibility of romance and intimacy seems highly likely at that time.

Then you call or text her to set up a date and things don’t always turn out as well as you hoped they would as you find it difficult to get her to agree to meet up with you.

Before long, your hopes of romance are dashed and feelings of anger towards women and/or insecurities about yourself may emerge.

This is the point where many guys often give up on pickup and dating if it happens enough times.

Frustrated men walk off into the horizon shouting "women are evil!" or "I'm just not cool enough!" or "pickup doesn't work!" or some combination of all three.

Interestingly, none of those statements are even close to being true: