How amazing is travelling? You get to escape from work, you get to escape from all the stresses of home, you land in a place where nobody knows you and you are free to be whoever you want for the remainder of that holiday.
As men, we often find ourselves fantasizing about what the women will be like in our country of destination. We imagine how they may be wooed by our nationality and our accent, or perhaps our skin colour.
The cold reality for most of us however is that it’s rarely ever as easy to meet women in this foreign country as our imaginations were telling us. Sure, your nationality and skin colour may give you advantages, but women are still women, and women can still be difficult at the best of times.
What I want to present to you guys today is a system I’ve used on a number of occasions to land in a new country with girls and a potential social circle ready to take me out and show me around. Not just one social circle, but MANY social circles. This will free you from the need to start cold-approaching the day you land, and leave you far more options than you otherwise would have had. The other great benefit, is that you end up being shown all of the hottest night spots without having to ‘wing’ it and hope you find somewhere decent based on 5 year old internet posts!
When you meet a girl and get her number, it’s easy to get caught up in the idea of a future romance together.
You really liked her and she seemed to like you too so the possibility of romance and intimacy seems highly likely at that time.
Then you call or text her to set up a date and things don’t always turn out as well as you hoped they would as you find it difficult to get her to agree to meet up with you.
Before long, your hopes of romance are dashed and feelings of anger towards women and/or insecurities about yourself may emerge.
This is the point where many guys often give up on pickup and dating if it happens enough times.
Frustrated men walk off into the horizon shouting "women are evil!" or "I'm just not cool enough!" or "pickup doesn't work!" or some combination of all three.
Interestingly, none of those statements are even close to being true:
Hollywood has done a lot to contribute to our views of how love works, and what we should expect from a partner who supposedly loves us. Most of us have very personal views on what love is, but scientists are getting ever closer to clearly defining the chemical processes that occur inside our bodies when we fall in love with someone. HINT: It’s alarmingly similar to a Cocaine high
I’m not going to debate today how you know if someone is right for you, or how to tell if a woman loves you, or who should say the ‘L’ word first. Today I want to talk about love as a very dangerous and possibly life-destroying habit that many men and women go blissfully through life without ever paying any attention to.
Put your hand up right now if you know someone who wasted years of their lives clearly dating someone that was ruining their lives, but they stuck in the relationship because of love. Put your other hand up if you’ve been guilty of this yourself?
In my opinion, dating (and potentially sleeping with) multiple women at the same time is the best way to find out what time type of women you like and gives you the best chance of meeting them rather than focusing on dating just one women at a time. many people don’t realize that dating multiple women at the same time is surprisingly easy to do BUT there are a few rules you must follow to make it work. These rules are below:
I’m someone that is very careful with my money. So after doing School Of Attraction’s intensive pickup course and learning how to get numbers and setup dates with attractive women I had two options to choose from;
1. have a couple of dates a week and spend a sizeable amount of money on each date becoming quickly poor
2. have LOTS of fun dates and spend next to nothing on each date.
I chose the second option and ended up developing ways to make my dates enjoyable AND inexpensive. My average date is now less than $10 and are just as much fun as my previous, more expensive dates.
If you’d like to learn how to date frugally, I’m one of the best guys to teach you. Read on to find out how.