Our brains are truly amazing things. So amazing in fact that even with all of our complex computers, it still takes a large room full of computers to mimic a simple brain function, and we can’t even begin to work out how our brain handles tasks such as deciding if an animal is a cat or a dog, or associative learning on the scale to which our brains are capable.

I’d like to discuss something most guys know very little about but which has a big impact on how you perform when it comes to learning to pick up women. In my line of work, helping men to ‘remember’ everything they learn so they can retrieve it in the moment they need to remember it is vital.

There’s a particularly gruelling moment that most of us have experienced at least once before in our lives.

That’s the moment we find a guy who’s really good with women and has been great with them his whole life, the kind of guy we typically refer to as a ‘Natural’.

We then ask this guy the question “What’s your secret dude?”

And his response is invariable a variation on the theme of “No secret man, it’s easy, you just have to relax and wing it in the moment”.

No doubt you walk away feeling terribly unfulfilled. I mean, how does that smug bastard manage to do it so easily? Odds are that same smug bastard is less intelligent than you which usually only serves to add fuel to the burning frustration that has become your sex life.

The naturals’ secrets are in fact hidden in plain view, but the trick is knowing what you are looking for. You see, they’re using a different part of their brains to attract women from most guys, and that’s where the secret often lies.