I recently had a prospective client send me an email regarding our courses. His questions were completely valid, and I wanted to share with you both his questions and my response.

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Dear Damien,

I’ve been interested in doing your course for a while, and was in fact saving up for the last month to sign up to your up coming program. Recently, I mentioned to a few guys who I head out with regularly that I was thinking of signing up with you and they told me that I should consider simply working hard at my game on my own and that if I put in enough practice and did some theory reading online that I could find lots of information at my disposal for free.

They also expressed concerns that they thought your course appeared to be on the pricey side. I hope you understand why I’m sending you this email, I just don’t want to feel like I’m throwing money down the drain or that I’m being taken advantage of financially.

Regards,
Client

What is Night Game?

This is where you learn how to approach, create conversation and attract women at the night club. You would typically try to target environments that have large numbers of women, and where the women aren't as likely to be too drunk. Venues that are favoured are those that are considered more 'upscale' like cocktail lounges and high end clubs. It is important for you to be able to hear well as the scene is often very loud.

Students who flourish in this environment tend to be men who are under 35 years young, already have lots of experience in clubs so they are comfortable in this environment and have less apprehension about being rejected. They’re also skewed towards one night stands and casual relationships.

WHAT IS MYSTERY METHOD?

Mystery Method is a form of seducing women which was popularized in a hugely successful book called ‘The Game’ written about the author’s (Neil Strauss) time spent under the tutelage of it’s founder, a magician by the name of Erik von Markovik.

Over the last 10 years, companies have popped up around the world coaching similar attraction strategies as those employed by Mystery Method, although in slightly altered forms. When I speak about Mystery Method in this post, I talk collectively about the majority of off-shoot companies which have a similar form of coaching to that which Neil Strauss was subjected in his book.

Over the years, a lot of guys have asked me about the differences between Direct and Indirect openers, and why I'm not a fan of the famous 'Indirect' way of opening women.

INDIRECT OPENERS

An indirect opener is one in which a man approaches a woman with a false reason. A typical indirect opener would be something called an 'opinion opener' in which the man asks the woman for an opinion about something as a reason to talk to her, so he might say "Excuse me, can I get a woman's opinion on something, who lies more, men or women?". Or he may simply ask her for directions somewhere first before trying to initiate real conversation.

I was once asked by an ex girlfriend “If you could teach your child one thing, what would it be?”

Resisting the urge to be witty and proclaim I’d teach my child to be a pickup king by the time they were 18, I realized there was one trait that overcomes all when I think about how the world works. That trait, and my answer to my ex was PERSISTANCE.

Persistence is KING when it comes to success in life, but with women it’s also a sexy masculine trait. Below are 3 reasons persistence is something every man should develop if he wants success with women.