Thursday, 20 December 2012 00:06
I have a great number of things to thank my mother for teaching me as I grew up. You see she was a Psychologist, and a public speaking teacher, and for a number of years as a young boy I was home-schooled by her. These days were tough for me, as while other children were at primary school passing notes to each other, mucking about, playing at recess with each other, my mum was making sure that I was getting the best education she could provide with much more focus on the work side of things than the play.
Unlike many home schooled kids however, my mum was very intelligent and knew how teach and we covered a range of subjects that most primary school children never came near. First to mind is Public Speaking. My mum has won numerous awards for public speaking, I can still envisage the trophies and certificates she used to have. She believed that if she could give her son the ability to me an amazing speaker, that he would later use that skill set to achieve great things. I don’t think she had ‘picking up women’ in mind as a potential career path, but I am successful as a result and for that I have her to thank.
So why all this personal history? Well, there is one hugely powerful technique I learned to utilize to improve my public speaking skills, and that I have gone on to use with public speaking students of my own as well as School of Attraction clients who wanted to be more successful with women.
Thursday, 15 November 2012 00:21
You can say a lot of things about the Pick Up Industry and its evolution over the years, but you can never accuse it of not being multi-cultural. I honestly can’t think of many countries in the world that haven’t been represented by at least one of my students in the past.
More than that, I notice the obvious trend of men wanting cultural diversity in their taste in women. I get Indian guys wanting nothing to do with Indian girls, Asian guys only wanting White women, I get white guys wanting Asian women, I get Northern European guys wanting black women, I get South American Guys wanting Eastern European Women, and Eastern European Guys Wanting Australian Women, and every other possible variation of the above. From a genetic variance viewpoint this makes perfect biological sense, if you mate with a genetically distant woman, then your offspring will likely benefit from a greater diversity of immune response and have a better chance of survival.
So the one concern that I hear from a lot of men is “What role does race play?”. A lot of guys can feel insecure dating well outside of their own racial type when they first start approaching these women. Some guys think women are racist, some guys assume women just aren’t interested in their race, and I can clearly see why that belief exists, but today I’d like to cover the controversial topic of race in the Pickup Industry.
Thursday, 25 October 2012 00:54
How amazing is travelling? You get to escape from work, you get to escape from all the stresses of home, you land in a place where nobody knows you and you are free to be whoever you want for the remainder of that holiday.
As men, we often find ourselves fantasizing about what the women will be like in our country of destination. We imagine how they may be wooed by our nationality and our accent, or perhaps our skin colour.
The cold reality for most of us however is that it’s rarely ever as easy to meet women in this foreign country as our imaginations were telling us. Sure, your nationality and skin colour may give you advantages, but women are still women, and women can still be difficult at the best of times.
What I want to present to you guys today is a system I’ve used on a number of occasions to land in a new country with girls and a potential social circle ready to take me out and show me around. Not just one social circle, but MANY social circles. This will free you from the need to start cold-approaching the day you land, and leave you far more options than you otherwise would have had. The other great benefit, is that you end up being shown all of the hottest night spots without having to ‘wing’ it and hope you find somewhere decent based on 5 year old internet posts!
Wednesday, 19 September 2012 01:16
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Saturday, 16 June 2012 02:58
As some of you know I’ve been involved with meditation for about 7 years now, for the most of that time I have been meditating every day.
Recently a lot of things have happened which have inspired me to write this article. Firstly my girlfriend took a Vipassana meditation program involving 12 hours meditating every day for 10 days with absolutely no speaking or communication. I resumed meditating myself after about 18 months break, and a large number of my students have taken up meditating. Our combined experiences gave me the feeling that more men and women should make meditation a part of their lives.
So what’s all the fuss about?
Thursday, 19 April 2012 01:02
Our brains are truly amazing things. So amazing in fact that even with all of our complex computers, it still takes a large room full of computers to mimic a simple brain function, and we can’t even begin to work out how our brain handles tasks such as deciding if an animal is a cat or a dog, or associative learning on the scale to which our brains are capable.
I’d like to discuss something most guys know very little about but which has a big impact on how you perform when it comes to learning to pick up women. In my line of work, helping men to ‘remember’ everything they learn so they can retrieve it in the moment they need to remember it is vital.