Sincere Seduction Intensive
Announcing the Best Male Confidence Course in Australia | The 12 Week course Guaranteed to Change Your Life
Do you want to radically improve your ability to meet, attract, and date amazing women?
Introducing Our 12 week Expert Training Course Designed For Guys Looking to Become Successful by harnessing your personality to become interesting, fun and ultimately generate attraction quickly.
LESSONS TAUGHT IN THE PROGRAM ARE AS FOLLOWS
STEP 1: Framework for changing your internal patterns
• The foundation of steadily increasing self confidence
• How dress/style impacts on how women perceive you
• How to get into a great mood before entering the night club
• The psychology of success and procrastination
• How to build momentum
• Learn your own process of doing things and create lasting productivity
• Designing consistency and control of your environment
• The fundamentals that will produce success every time
• What are the habits of successful people that you should adopt
• How to truly believe in your ability to succeed to ensure you don't give up
• Beginning with the end in mind - Not preparing yourself for failure
• How always being the fool is the best way to master anything
STEP 2: Approaching a gorgeous female stranger
• The evolution of the human brain
• Understanding your mind to eliminate anxiety
• Practical steps to instantly reduce stress
• Exploring the implications of Triune Brain Theory
• How you do the most damage to yourself and ways to stop it
• Learn hands down the only way to approach to ensure optimal success rate
• The best way to approach a woman and take advantage of your window of opportunity
• Dealing with rejection
STEP 3: Creating conversation and rapport
• How being completely honest with women is the only way to feel great about yourself
• Ways to generate conversation with women
• How to show-case your strengths to women without gloating
• Building rapport and connection at record speed
• Pushing past sticking points in a conversation
• Ways to make sure she never sticks you in the ‘you’re just a friend’ box
• How to speak to a group of women
• How to speak to the one woman you're interested in without offending people she’s with
• How to have fun at all times and be the guy everyone wants to be around
STEP 4: CLOSING THE DEAL
4(A)- Getting her number and taking her on a date (relationship)
• Screening the right women for you
• How to ask women for their number
• Making women remember you fondly the next day
• The best way to ensure she picks up your call and replies to your text message
• Setting Up Dates
• Organising a fun filled date
• What an effective first date should feel like
• Proper etiquette on a date
• Taking the next step to a meaningful relationship
4(B)- One night stands or creating and maintaining a casual sex relationship
• Letting women know what you want
• Getting to the topic of sex to assess their feelings
• Screening the women who are sexually available for one-night stands or casual sex relationships
• Sexually escalating in the night club
• Ways to respectfully ask a girl home with you
• Maintaining discreetness
• Creating effective boundaries to ensure that both parties know the rules and neither of you gets hurt.
Overview Of Sessions
3 THEORY SESSIONS:
WHAT ARE THEORY SESSIONS: You will spend 3 hours each session with a coach who will teach you the foundations of developing confidence in yourself with women.
TIME: Usually between 7pm-10pm on a weeknight
DAY: Currently on Wednesday evenings though flexibility may be arranged
LOCATION: At our headquarters - Level 14, 309 Kent Street, Sydney
HOW MANY PEOPLE WILL THERE BE: Your theory sessions are in an intimate classroom environment. This promotes interesting discussion and allows students to learn from one another. All classrooms have a maximum of 10 students. This provides the perfect blend of personal attention and group learning and support.
5 PRACTICAL SESSIONS:
WHAT IS A PRACTICAL SESSION: Your coach will take you to a night club and he will watch you put everything you learnt in your theory session into practice. He will provide you with real time feedback, he will join you in set to highlight great interactions, he will guide you to push your boundaries and motivate you to go to lengths you never dreamed of. He will also support you in your triumphs and rejections and do everything he possibly can to make sure you leave feeling fantastic about yourself.
TIME: Day Sessions are (11am-3pm), night sessions are (8pm-12am) depending on whether you elect day game or night game sessions. (Click here to make an informed decision)
DAY: NIGHT Sessions = Friday or Saturday night. DAY Sessions = Saturday or Sunday day.
LOCATION: An Exclusive CBD Night Club or Bar
HOW MANY PEOPLE WILL I BE WITH: There is a maximum of 3 students to one coach. This way, we ensure adequate attention is given to everyone in their learning.
4 MENTOR SESSIONS
WHAT IS A MENTOR SESSION: Your mentor is a past or current SOA student who has started generating success for themselves and will head out with you to teach you a thing or two from what he’s learnt. Mentor sessions are designed so that you don’t procrastinate and keep your momentum up. Your mentor will also bring you into the community.
TIME/DAY/LOCATION: Your mentor will arrange a date, time and venue with you during your week off from coaching.
HOW MANY PEOPLE WILL THERE BE: We limit mentor sessions to two students per mentor
4 Traineeship Sessions
WHAT IS A TRAINEESHIP SESSION: This is where you become a mentor and take a new student under your wing and teach them a few things you’ve learnt. Traineeship sessions are only offered to those students who the coach feels has progressed far enough to teach others. There will be plenty of opportunities for you to mentor a new student as your level of success improves. A representative will contact you to let you know that you have been accepted and will discuss dates, times and venues with you then.
TIME/DAY/LOCATION: Your will arrange a date, time and venue with your student during their week off from coaching
HOW MANY PEOPLE WILL THERE BE: A maximum of 2 students
7 Midweek Challenges
For the first 8 weeks, in-between sessions you will be provided with further theory reading and practical assignments designed to help you internalise fundamental learnings and maintain your motivation between sessions.
12 WEEK SCHEDULE LAYOUT*
* This schedule is designed solely to give you an idea of time commitment required and intrinsic structure of course. Please refer to upcoming schedule for definitive guidelines. Your schedule may be less than 12 weeks due to course week alignments but you will receive the same sessions as above.
1st Theory Session
1st Practical Session
1st Mentor Session
2nd Theory Session
2nd Practical Session
2nd Mentor Session
Last Theory Session
3rd Practical Session
3rd Mentor Session
4th Practical Session
Last Mentor Session
Last Practical Session
1st Traineeship Sesssion
2nd Traineeship Session
3rd Traineeship Session
Last Traineeship Session
SUPPORT DURING THIS TIME
12 Weeks Mobile Phone Support
If at any time throughout your course, you are facing a challenge with women, or if you simply have questions to ask, you have unlimited mobile phone access to SOA coaches. We are here to support you throughout your journey and make sure that you keep breaking through all of your challenges and limiting beliefs.
Lifetime Email Support
Once you complete a course with the School of Attraction, you have email support with the coaches for the rest of your life.
If you get into a relationship after the course, then 6 months later, you are single again and want to start working on your confidence with women once more, then you are welcome at any time to email any of the coaches with your questions and challenges as they arise. Our goal is to ensure that you are never again without a place to turn to for solid advice and support in your journey towards success with women.
Lifetime Access to Forum
The School of Attraction Student Forum is a gold mine for those working at getting great with women. All students that complete this course must blog about their nights out as part of their learning and you will too. There, you will find information on every issue you could possibly imagine with women.
Just imagine a place where everyone around has done the 12 week course (even our coaches), know exactly what you’re going through and can give you valuable advice quickly on anything you need. That’s what we have with this forum and that’s what you have at your disposal for the rest of your life.
Lifetime Access to SOA parties and events
Around these parts at the School of Attraction, we like to have a lot of fun – Maybe too much fun as some would say but heck, fun is always the aim of the game. It’s the foundation of what we teach and we guard it closely.
Now just to give you an idea, here’s some of the things we get up to:
- Strip club dinners with all students. Great for practising eye contact, fun and important for our community to foster real friendships also.
- Interstate Trips. So we hire out a 5 million dollar mansion in Surfers QLD, fill it with School of Attraction students and for 5 day and nights, we head out, find girls to bring back and have a huge party the whole time. Completely nuts!
- Comedy night. We all love a laugh and where better to be that at the Fringe Bar laughing, eating and creating mischief.
- Drive Day. We hire first class sports cars for a day (Ferrari, lamborghini, Maserati, etc) and go on a long ride, changing cars and sharing how awesome it is. End with dinner and sunset at the beach and you’ve go yourself a fantastic day.
- Of course there’s also things like paintball, dinner parties, date nights and beach parties etc.
There's always something going on that you can be a part of
After every practical session, you will receive detailed writeup from your coach detailing what went well, and providing you with help for overcoming challenges. We utilise the following feedback criteria to ensure that every coach provides the same high quality of feedback that everyone has come to expect from School of Attraction.
OUR STUDENTS ARE OUR BEST ADVERTISEMENT …
The below is a post written by a respected member of an independent men’s forum sydneysarge.org
For those who may not be aware, I took on Damien’s school of attraction MCI course at the middle of last year. I thought it might be helpful for someone to get an outlook of my experiences whilst taking the course and after completing it.
For the first couple of months (3 to be exact) of being involved in the seduction community, I was heavily involved around the Mystery methods way of approaching women, I was opening women with Opinion openers and working on calibration. I found that after 3 months of doing this, the general responses I got from women were negative. I was struggling to get numbers still and found that I was limited in what I could say to women. I was not fixing the problem but more so trying to find a shortcut to success. Out of 10 sets I would only manage to open 2.
Something wasn't right and I felt that I needed someone to show me what I’m doing wrong and how I could improve my results...I started trying to open situationally at this point.
After researching pick up coaches in Sydney, from love systems to other mystery method based training, I came across Damien’s school. I was a bit skeptical at first as I found a lot of coaches were more concerned with trying to sell me their training as opposed to trying to find where I was at in my game and what I was looking for. I found that Damien was holding a seminar on the Art of effortless communication and thought it would be a good opportunity to suss him out and see if he was a shady character.
Upon going to the seminar; amongst all the useful information he provided, I also learnt two things about Damien - One is that he is not only passionate at pick up and about helping others in this area of life but he has also had the results. He came from a very dark place in his life and I respected him for his ability to rise above and conquer a lot of the challenges put towards him.
He came across to me as a genuine man who does not see you as a potential 3 or 4 grand but as a person who wants to improve in an area which he too once struggled with. He did not lie to me or try to convince me to take on his course, he was real with me and this was what inspired me to take his course.
Welcome to SOA
Upon signing up, I was asked a series of questions, mostly related to my experience with women in the past and what I hoped to achieve. I was also asked to write up a post relating to the history of women in the past and my experiences with them. Upon starting the course, the first theory session there were a lot of "oohs and ahhs" coming from me, Damien’s outlook on pickup and what he taught me was not only well thought out but also intelligent and honest, not once did he teach me to compromise myself, who I was or to do something he does... As each theory went on, I found I learnt so many useful things that I did not even think of when it came to sticking points I’ve had in the past and was currently facing. It was not only educational but also a fun and insightful experience.
Damien didn’t just cover the approaching side of game as most of the other competitors did, but he focused on the entire process of pickup from approaching to dates to even taking her home. After every theory I would drive home pondering over what I just learnt. None of us students could deny that we did not get at least 10 things useful out of each lesson.
On The Field Coaching
Not knowing what to expect from Damien and not knowing how well he'd be as a coach, I would be lying if I said I wasn't still a little skeptical to whether he was the real deal or not when it came to my first practical. However this skepticism quickly disappeared as I not only saw women opening him constantly but seeing him handling it like a smooth m*therf*cker. I manage to see how good he was and he just oozed confident energy everywhere he went. I remember thinking to myself I want to be like this guy!
Every practical involved him discussing with me my goals for the night, then the rest of the night would be focused on completing those goals. He would push me in the right direction and when I would fail he would give me his advice, perception on the situation and his guidance. He knew exactly where I was at, knew where my comfort zone was and he knew exactly how to push me in just the right way to get me beyond it.
At the end of the night, he would assess my performance and give me his honest opinion on what he thought I should improve on, he asked me to update my blog with a field report.
Within a day or two, he would comment on it, sharing his knowledge and experience with me on things I found I had trouble with as well as gave me useful ideas on how to push past it the next time it came across...overall he was very supportive.
On The Field Mentor
Part of the course was to go out with a mentor in the weeks between the coaching, this was to keep me motivated and as well as maintaining my momentum and pushing myself. The interesting thing I found was that my mentor shared a lot of the traits I had when it came to game, he had gone through the trials and challenges I was currently facing. SOA knew what they were doing when they paired us...
My mentor was honest with me as to where he was at, he didn’t pretend to be a coach nor a man who has supreme success with women, He was just a guy who was a little further down the track than I was and who could understand and relate to where I was at - which meant I couldn’t bullsh*t him when it came to certain things and he'd know exactly why I failed to do something. He would then be able to give me his advice based on his experience on the same sticking point and situations and where he was unsure; he would ask one of the other SOA coaches.
He also introduced me to a lot of the members, made me feel accepted as part of the group and helped me maintain my momentum and achieve my goals. I remember seeing him in set with me and noticing how good he was, I read his journal prior to our session and noticed a majority of things I was facing, he had faced and overcome...at that moment I knew that I would come out of this 10 times better than what I came into it.
As the weeks went on, I was starting to get some major improvement through the constant momentum. My goals were getting much more challenging and complex. My communication skills with women were improving and I was quickly getting better results with the women I opened. I would at this stage have 5 out of 10 women open successfully; averaging 30 minutes in set as opposed to 5 to 10 minutes in set, I was getting more numbers, isolating and even got my first club make out! One of the biggest things I gained at this stage was comfort in my own skin. I was confident in the club, I was having fun and I was starting to really push the envelope in my interactions and was starting to smash some limiting beliefs I had in regards to interacting with women in the club.
The End Result
At the beginning I was a mystery methodist who struggled to maintain conversation with women after running out of routines to use. My sets lasted roughly 5 to 10 minutes if hooked well. I would not be consistent with my ability to open up sets. I was not all that confident in my abilities; very nervous and felt like the road was a long one.
By the end of the course, I was talking to women without routines; I was quick witted; comfortable in my own skin, able to open 9 out of 10 sets consistently; anywhere from 30 minutes to 2 hours in set and got a cr*p load of numbers in a night. More importantly, I was having fun and what seemed like a daunting task to go out and pick up women suddenly became more enjoyable and fun experience.
I have made friends with men who were motivated and pushed each other to succeed, who supported each other and helped each other to achieve a common goal; being involved with this kind of social group not only taught me a lot but also helped me raise the bar.
Damien’s knowledge an experience in the field taught me things that would have taken me a long time to figure out if I were to have done it on my own, To this day I still seek out his advice and he is more than happy to give it to me. He has overseen my progress in this journey and till this day, is more than happy to help me with any challenges I face.
I look back at the day when I was about to pay the money for the course, thinking to myself "Bigz you are probably going to regret this". Little did I know that the value I’d get out of it at the time, the amazing experience, the life changing insights and the friendships made; the course not only improved my game but I’ve made high value friendships as well as become part of a something extraordinary and unique. I look back at that day when faced with paying the money and think that it was best decision I ever made.
After completing the SOA course, a majority of students, mentors and coaches are tight...our community, friendships and bonds are strong and therefore the improvement goes beyond completion of the course, One of SOAs strengths is the motivation behind each person in the community; you see them constantly out; organising outings to go out and work on this stuff, giving advice from their experiences and contributing information into the community. I am confident that if I go out to the ivy or argyle, I will come across SOA guys, even if I didn’t plan ahead and organise a wing, I know ill always find one there.
The best part is that these guys are not the type of guys you see out standing awkwardly, not approaching with a game face that would creep their own mothers out. These guys have fun, they talk to women and they have become exceptionally good at it. A lot of guys have consistent success, have built their dating lifestyles to player status and have grown to become the men they always wanted to be. They are confident and they have fun even to a point of where women approach them just to be part of the fun.
Damien has created something truly amazing in my eyes, a system that works, a community of men who are skilled and a knowledgebase that has been built by both Damien and his students.
21 QUESTIONS ….
1. Am I too old to do this course?
You may be surprised to find out that from the hundreds of students we’ve had come through our door, there isn’t a particular age group of men that defines our demographic. That being said, we often direct men over 45 to do their practicals out in the day as opposed to a night club. Day game is much more relaxed and is suited for men who want relationships.
2. Can I drink alcohol during my practical sessions?
We discourage it passionately. Your coach will allow you to have one drink at the beginning of the session if you must but that’s it. We require you to be alert and sober. By doing this, you are already better than 90% of men in the club. You also need to analyse your night at the end of the evening and you cannot do that effectively if you’re drunk.
3. I’ve already read everything there is to know about pick up, do I need to come to the theory sessions?
Yes. The theory sessions are directly aligned with the practical sessions to provide maximum learning in the shortest amount of time. Not attending these will be a grave mistake on your part.
4. What happens if I’m late to a session?
For theory sessions, the lifts to our office close down at 6pm. Therefore, an SOA rep will come down to the ground floor and grab you at 7pm sharp. Once the session starts at 7:10pm, the rep cannot come down and grab you as they will be in session. If you happen to get there late and cannot get access, you can then do the session with the next lot of students in a month or two’s time. For practical sessions, it is vital that you get there on time. Nightclub bouncers become quite strict after 8pm and if you cannot get into the club for whatever reason (this is rare), the coaches will have to continue the session without you.
5. What if I can’t attend a session?
If you cannot make a theory session, you are able to attend that session when the next lot of students commence. This will be in 1-2 months time. Bear in mind that this will be disruptive to your learning. If you cannot make a practical session, you forfeit the session unless you can provide medical or other documentation for proof of dire consequence. If you cannot make a mentor session when your mentor is available in the week between your coaching sessions, you cannot reasonably expect mentors to go out of their way for you and create a different time to make these sessions up. Mentors are unpaid students looking to further their knowledge by showing you the ropes and as such, their time should be respected just as they will respect your time.
6. Am I going to get anything in the mail about the course if I sign up?
No. We understand that some of our students want to be private about doing this course. All correspondence from us will be via email, phone call or mobile text.
7. Do I have to provide an emergency contact?
Yes. In the highly unlikely chance that something happens to you whilst in our care, we would like to be able to notify a friend or a family member.
8. Are there any extra charges other than the tuition?
The bank will charge you $2.20 administration fee, a $1.50 bank account transaction fee, a 2.2% charge for paying by Visa or MasterCard or a 4.4% charge for paying by Amex or Diners. There is no charge for direct transferring the full tuition into the SOA bank account.
9. If I decide to pay a monthly payment of $332.50, can I pay it out early if I want?
Yes you can. It’s as easy as letting us know and we’ll get it all organised for you. No paperwork or hassles.
10. Can I do the course if I have a medical condition/ illness/ ailment?
You must let us know the full details of the situation in your enrolment form. The Head Coach will discuss this with you and make a decision whether this course is right for you.
11. What if I don’t want to be a mentor for a student down the line?
It is not compulsory for you to mentor for a new student. Feel free to respectfully decline our offer once we accept you.
12. Do I need to use my full name on the forum?
No. Many students use a nickname to identify themselves on the forum. You must however list your full name when you register as SOA will need to identify you in order to accept you onto the forum. Once we accept you, you can then delete your full name from your account forum.
13. Can I be completely anonymous in my enrolment?
No. Whilst we take every step to ensure privacy, you cannot neglect to fill out the enrolment form truthfully and to the best of your knowledge for moral, liability and insurance reasons.
14. Do I need to purchase anything for the course?
There is nothing mandatory for you to buy for this course.
15. Do I need to bring anything to class?
Please bring your diary to your first session. Here, you will meet your mentors and bed down exact dates for your mentor sessions.
16. Do I need to pay entry costs for the night club?
No. At 8pm when your practical session starts, there is no charge at the night club door.
17. Where is the meeting place at the night club?
As you enter the night club, the meeting place in on your right hand side in front of the kitchen. Your coach will give you his mobile number on your first theory session just in case you get lost.
18. Is there a dress code for the night club?
Yes. It is best that you wear dress shoes and a collared shirt. You must dress smart casual.
19. Can I just call the coaches whenever I like?
Coaches are available on their mobile during the course. If you need advice at an unreasonable hour or when the coaches are unavailable, your coaches will call you back within 24 hours to discuss your conundrum.
20. I’d like to do this course with a friend. Is it possible to do it together?
Yes. We can definitely accommodate for the two of you learn at the same time. We can sometimes give discounts for two friends enrolling at the same time so contact us for more information.
21. Is there a guest list I’m on or is there a chance I won’t be allowed into the club?
We don’t organise a guest list because there’s no need for one at 8pm. If you get to the club before 8pm and you aren’t allowed into the club (which is rare), we will organise to move the session elsewhere and accommodate you as best we can.