This is a really powerful influencing technique for helping women to feel comfortable physically escalating with you shortly after you have met them which I internalised a long time ago and I still use it to this day, but it is an entirely subconscious process now. It works like this..
If I wanted to sell you a trip to Thailand, the obvious thing for me to do would be to tell you everything that is great about Thailand to wet your appetite and then ask you if you’d like to go. Now this will get a degree of success, but there is a much more effective way to go about it.
Now lets say I want to sell you a trip to Thailand, but I want to help you create an identity obligation to accept my offer first. I would ask you “Are you an adventurous type of person?” and most people always answer this in the affirmative. Then I might say “how fun is it when you do something impulsive and that leads to an adventure?” and you will usually in turn agree and we could share stories of how we did something impulsive that led to the most amazing adventure. By this point, you have painted an identity of being impulsive and adventurous so when I start telling you about Thailand and asking you whether you would like to go, you feel an overwhelming compulsion to live up to the identity you have created lest you feel like a hypocrite.
Charities often do this by first getting you to simply sign your name in support of a charity. Then when they call you later and ask for a small donation, you feel obliged since you have already admitted to being the type of person who supports charities.
The same principle can be used with girls you meet out and about, and I contribute it to a small degree of the success I have in field. I always try to get women to admit to being the adventurous type who loves being impulsive, and I love getting women to admit they love taking risks.
The greater Majority of women want to see themselves as being adventurous/impulsive and about 60% of women want to be seen as thrill seekers as that’s what society tends to merit as a desirable feature.
Once women have admitted these things to me, how much more likely do you think I am of succeeding at getting them to be adventurous and impulsive with me?
How is this done in practice? It’s really quite easy.. I’ll bring it up as part of the conversation.. Perhaps she is telling me about her trip to Europe last year, then I suggest that she is obviously the adventurous type and she agrees. Perhaps she is telling me she just left her job, in which case I suggest that she is impulsive and is a risk taker. It’s easy enough to find evidence for those traits in a general conversation with a woman.
Having established these core values with a woman, it also makes it much easier to go in for the kiss, grab her phone number, or take the plunge and try to get her back to your place since she has at least told you that she is open to new experiences.
Please note that this is not to be misconstrued as manipulative behaviour because this strategy is used worldwide by businesses and individuals looking to sell something, only in this case, we are selling ourselves. You are merely subverting societal pressures on the women to behave in a certain way. If a woman doesn’t really want to be adventurous and impulsive with you, then she won’t no matter how well you pull this off.
This is just another tool to try out in the field. I have personally found it to be quite effective, and you may as well.