If you were in a boxing match with someone and at some point you threw a bad punch that missed the mark by a mile, what would you do?

Would you refocus your attention and try to make sure that your next few punches were straighter and harder and had a better chance of hitting their target OR would you give up and walk out of the ring right then and there? I hope you'd choose the first option and keep on fighting.

I also hope you'd apply the same amount of persistence and resilience to pickup and dating as well.

Most people don't.

When you meet a girl and get her number, it’s easy to get caught up in the idea of a future romance together.

You really liked her and she seemed to like you too so the possibility of romance and intimacy seems highly likely at that time.

Then you call or text her to set up a date and things don’t always turn out as well as you hoped they would as you find it difficult to get her to agree to meet up with you.

Before long, your hopes of romance are dashed and feelings of anger towards women and/or insecurities about yourself may emerge.

This is the point where many guys often give up on pickup and dating if it happens enough times.

Frustrated men walk off into the horizon shouting "women are evil!" or "I'm just not cool enough!" or "pickup doesn't work!" or some combination of all three.

Interestingly, none of those statements are even close to being true:

In my opinion, dating (and potentially sleeping with) multiple women at the same time is the best way to find out what time type of women you like and gives you the best chance of meeting them rather than focusing on dating just one women at a time. many people don’t realize that dating multiple women at the same time is surprisingly easy to do BUT there are a few rules you must follow to make it work. These rules are below:

I recently coached a student who achieved quite an amazing feat of getting 10 attractive women’s phone numbers in one single coaching session. The average guy doesn’t get 10 numbers in a year, he did it in less than four hours. It was very impressive to watch.

After the coaching session I reflected back on it and asked myself “what did he do differently than other students to get those type of results?”. At first I wondered if it was perhaps just luck but after giving it some more thought I realized that it was much more than that and by digging deeply I soon identified three key things that made this particular student exceptional and played a major role in him achieving such amazing results.

I will now share these three things with you and I encourage you to consider incorporating them into your pickup and dating life RIGHT NOW to multiply your results and achieve outstanding result just like him.

Although talked about much less, I actually think that approach "hesitation" is actually much more of an issue for most guys than approach "anxiety".

Most guys are "hesitant" to approach, not "anxious".

And why are they hesitant?

99% of the time it's because they feel like they don't know what to say to start a conversation with that particular girl in that particular situation.

How do I know this to be true?

I’m someone that is very careful with my money. So after doing School Of Attraction’s intensive pickup course and learning how to get numbers and setup dates with attractive women I had two options to choose from;

1. have a couple of dates a week and spend a sizeable amount of money on each date becoming quickly poor
OR
2. have LOTS of fun dates and spend next to nothing on each date.

I chose the second option and ended up developing ways to make my dates enjoyable AND inexpensive. My average date is now less than $10 and are just as much fun as my previous, more expensive dates.

If you’d like to learn how to date frugally, I’m one of the best guys to teach you. Read on to find out how.

When I first starting dating a lot, some dates led to romance and a lot of them didn't. In time I noticed a pattern and I worked out exactly why some dates were much more successful than others. I eventually developed this further to create a simple and repeatable system that I can now use to get to romance almost every time a date a girl I'm interested in.

I'm not going to share my actual system with anyone as it took me months to develop and is one of my personal secret weapons BUT I can share some basic fundamentals that makes my system so effective and that you can apply to your own pickups and dates.

Let me start by saying that this article can change your pickup and dating life forever. You can use it to go from having a non-existent sex life TODAY to getting laid like a rock star TONIGHT. You can also use it to eventually marry the girl of your dreams.

Big claims, I know - but I stand by them...

Beware though, if you ignore or go against the principles discussed in this article you literally guarantee yourself years of loneliness and frustration...

Just like rich people have multiple streams of income, guys who get laid a lot have multiple streams of women. This means that they have a variety of sources where they meet and pick up women. They don't rely on just nightclubs or popular day game spots anymore. They get women EVERYWHERE.

Once you've developed your pickup and seduction skills to a decent level, you can expand your horizons beyond nightclubs and popular day game spots and start getting women from multiple sources. Here's some streams of women to consider;

Without a clear idea on how to date properly and what a good date should look like, many guys struggle when it comes to taking girls on dates. As a day game guy (I only pickup women during the day), I had no choice but to get good at dating. It's an essential part of my seduction process and so I forced myself to go on countless amounts of dates no matter how badly the previous date or dates went. It took a while, but eventually I started to work out how to enjoy dating and now I'm at the point were I absolutely LOVE dating.

In this article I'm going to focus on how you should logistically plan and lead your date to give you the best chance of success and to make things more interesting and enjoyable for you and her.