How amazing is travelling? You get to escape from work, you get to escape from all the stresses of home, you land in a place where nobody knows you and you are free to be whoever you want for the remainder of that holiday.


As men, we often find ourselves fantasizing about what the women will be like in our country of destination. We imagine how they may be wooed by our nationality and our accent, or perhaps our skin colour.

The cold reality for most of us however is that it’s rarely ever as easy to meet women in this foreign country as our imaginations were telling us. Sure, your nationality and skin colour may give you advantages, but women are still women, and women can still be difficult at the best of times.

What I want to present to you guys today is a system I’ve used on a number of occasions to land in a new country with girls and a potential social circle ready to take me out and show me around. Not just one social circle, but MANY social circles. This will free you from the need to start cold-approaching the day you land, and leave you far more options than you otherwise would have had. The other great benefit, is that you end up being shown all of the hottest night spots without having to ‘wing’ it and hope you find somewhere decent based on 5 year old internet posts!

One of the wonderful things about being an attraction coach (there are a few), is that you get to see so many vital pick up skills reflected every day in the world around you and marvel at how much success in anything requires such a similar range of skillsets.

I had such an experience last week when I came home after a night coaching session to my lovely girlfriend.

I’ve been on a very strict diet recently in an attempt to reclaim my six pack which 6 months ago was overwhelmed by my keen eye for good chocolate. So you can imagine my feelings when I came home to my girlfriend on the couch watching TV, eating a large piece of chocolate cake.

The ensuing conversation went as follows:

In my opinion, dating (and potentially sleeping with) multiple women at the same time is the best way to find out what time type of women you like and gives you the best chance of meeting them rather than focusing on dating just one women at a time. many people don’t realize that dating multiple women at the same time is surprisingly easy to do BUT there are a few rules you must follow to make it work. These rules are below:

The Following is a recent correspondence I had with a man who was having trouble maintaining a casual sex relationship with a woman without her getting attached.


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Hey Damien,

Recently ive been having a casual with a girl its been roughly around 2 months into it and so far its been good, cept sometimes she decides to leave marks on me that my boss gets to ask me about. Anyways recently i have noticed certain things with her when it comes to our sexual endevours and indicate to me she is starting to get attached for example

Just like rich people have multiple streams of income, guys who get laid a lot have multiple streams of women. This means that they have a variety of sources where they meet and pick up women. They don't rely on just nightclubs or popular day game spots anymore. They find beautiful women EVERYWHERE.

Once you’ve developed your pickup and seduction skills to a decent level, you can expand your horizons beyond nightclubs and popular day game spots and start finding single women from multiple sources. Here’s some streams of women to consider;

Getting a girls number is actually a very simple process. You walk up to a girl, talk for a few minutes (or longer) and then request that she give you her number. Although this is simple, there are number of things you can do make things much easier for you. Read on to find out more;

NOTE: this article assumes you have approached and engaged the girl for at least a few minutes or however long you need to and that fits into the situation (see other articles on approaching and conversations if you need help with those steps)

WHAT EXACTLY IS CONFIDENCE?
“With confidence, you have won before you have started.” Marcus Garvey

In technical terms, confidence is simply one's belief in their ability to perform and succeed at specific tasks and in life in general. It's the belief that one is successful, capable and can do almost anything they put their mind to. In practical terms, confident guys get laid. It’s as simple as that. While the low confident guy is at home watching TV or in the club thinking of the perfect opening line, the confident guy is already talking to the girl he wants and is trying to get her home with him.

With confidence you give yourself permission to act and you almost always get good results and enjoy the process. Without it you struggle. Get confidence handled and watch your success in all areas of your life soar.

The two keys to master almost any skill in record time is to think big and take massive action. This means creating a compelling vision for what you want to achieve AND doing everything possible to make it happen.

Anthony Robbins is a master of this strategy. When he wanted to become good at public speaking he didn't deliver speeches once a month like most people do. He did it EVERY DAY and sometimes even TWO or THREE TIMES A DAY. This accelerated his learning and skill development by up to 100 TIMES of that of his peers. As a result he became an outstanding public speaker in an extremely short period of time.