I’d like to preface this article with the statement that not once am I going to make a moral case for being honest. Nor am I going to talk about avoiding hurting people. Today I’m only concerned with men getting the best results possible when they’re trying to attract women.

In 2005, I did an intense 6 week program designed to strengthen my masculine core and get me in touch with my true desires and passions in life. This course had nothing to do with pickup, but one of the rules I had to swear to live my life by was to always be honest. This wasn’t ‘radical’ honesty where you go around being a dick to everyone by telling them what you really think of them, this was the type of honesty that required me to never mislead other people regarding who I was or what my intentions were.

In 2005, three other things also happened.

1) My self-confidence shot through the roof
2) I suddenly felt like I deserved the high quality women I was hitting on.
3) I started getting laid like a rock star.

“I think the girl I’ve been having casual sex with is starting to fall for me, how do I stop her?”

This must be one of my most common questions I get from ex students who aren’t yet ready to settle down into a relationship. If you too have this question, then put your ego aside for a moment because the answer has a lot more to do with her body chemistry than your being the ultimate catch.