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Written by Daygame Adam
Thursday, 18 August 2011 04:44
I recently coached a student who achieved quite an amazing feat of getting 10 attractive
women’s phone numbers in one single coaching session. The average guy doesn’t get 10 numbers in a
year, he did it in less than four hours. It was very impressive to watch.
After the coaching session I reflected back on it and asked myself “what did he do differently than other students to get those type of results?”. At first I wondered if it was perhaps just luck but after giving it some more thought I realized that it was much more than that and by digging deeply I soon identified three key things that made this particular student exceptional and played a major role in him achieving such amazing results. I will now share these three things with you and I encourage you to consider incorporating them into your pickup and dating life RIGHT NOW to multiply your results and achieve outstanding result just like him.
Cheers!
Written by Daygame Adam
Thursday, 16 June 2011 00:33
Although talked about much less, I actually think that approach "hesitation" is actually much
more of an issue for most guys than approach "anxiety".
Most guys are "hesitant" to approach, not "anxious". And why are they hesitant? 99% of the time it's because they feel like they don't know what to say to start a conversation with that particular girl in that particular situation. How do I know this to be true?
Cheers!
Written by Damien D
Thursday, 02 June 2011 11:32
Over the years, a lot of guys have asked me about the differences between Direct and Indirect openers, and why I'm not a fan of the famous 'Indirect' way of opening women.
INDIRECT OPENERS An indirect opener is one in which a man approaches a woman with a false reason. A typical indirect opener would be something called an 'opinion opener' in which the man asks the woman for an opinion about something as a reason to talk to her, so he might say "Excuse me, can I get a woman's opinion on something, who lies more, men or women?". Or he may simply ask her for directions somewhere first before trying to initiate real conversation.
Cheers!
Written by SOA Mentor
Tuesday, 31 May 2011 01:07
Like many of us I stumbled upon the Community after reading The Game. Suffice to say that it altered my viewpoint and perceptions about what was possible in terms of developing social skills and attracting women.
Previously I hadn't given a lot of thought to developing the kind of skills you need to succeed in social interactions and attracting women. It seems completely obvious now that of course, like any other, these are skills that you can learn, practice and refine. Upon having this "Aha" moment, I set about gathering information to help me develop this area of my life. I scoured the internet, read numerous books and watched many videos in this quest for knowledge. In short, I tried to fill my brain with a massive amount of theory covering end-to-end game.
Cheers!
Written by SOA Mentor
Tuesday, 31 May 2011 01:01
I have been breaking my game down into small chunks trying to get a
complete understanding of where I've been and how I have got to
this point. This is what I came up with on approach anxiety and how
I kicked it in the nuts!
Opening can be the hardest part of pickup. Truth is, you can make it hard for yourself. Everyone gets anxious somehow about opening. Even after opening your first set, or maybe you've opened over 1,000+ sets in your time we still get it in some way shape or form. If we all get approach anxiety, how is it that we consistently open?
Cheers!
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