Dating is a complex matter, influenced by luck, chance and personal preferences, and what works for one person may not work for someone else. Some singles are lucky enough to meet their perfect match instantly, other have to go on a few good dates and a few bad dates before they successfully find a partner. However, after years of experience in online dating, we have narrowed down the essential 10 tips for success in online dating. While each individual tip may not lead to success immediately, follow all 10 tips and you are guaranteed to find success in online dating eventually.
What is Night Game?
This is where you learn how to approach, create conversation and attract women at the night club. You would typically try to target environments that have large numbers of women, and where the women aren’t as likely to be too drunk. Venues that are favoured are those that are considered more ‘upscale’ like cocktail lounges and high end clubs. It is important for you to be able to hear well as the scene is often very loud.
Students who flourish in this environment tend to be men who are under 35 years young, already have lots of experience in clubs so they are comfortable in this environment and have less apprehension about being rejected. They’re also skewed towards one night stands and casual relationships.
I have always viewed my life as a journey… At times I am living it large and it is an epic movie length adventure, and at other times, I become lazy and boring and it becomes like a Twitter post. Nevertheless, I try my hardest at all times to be on a journey to somewhere. This journey includes but by no means is limited to the friends I surround myself with, the tough decisions I make, and the activities I regularly engage in to name a few. All these factors come together to form Damien D – my sense of self and who I truly am.
In my past I have for reasons I still can’t logically make sense of, changed the course of my journey because there was a woman around. This could be subtle such as skipping the gym a couple of times to hang out with her more, or life changing such as putting my life purpose on hold to please her. Very often, I would make very small changes to my life journey almost from the first date with a woman – this may be for example; I would take her on a date somewhere that I would never normally go myself, simply because I wanted to impress her, or make her think that I was a certain type of guy.
Just like rich people have multiple streams of income, guys who get laid a lot have multiple streams of women. This means that they have a variety of sources where they meet and pick up women. They don’t rely on just nightclubs or popular day game spots anymore. They get women EVERYWHERE.
Once you’ve developed your pickup and seduction skills to a decent level, you can expand your horizons beyond nightclubs and popular day game spots and start getting women from multiple sources. Here’s some streams of women to consider;
One of the most horrible things a woman you are attracted to can say to you is “let’s just be friends” its phrase heard all too frequently by good decent guys. The words can bring a man down harder than a sack of potatoes.
If you’re asking yourself questions like “why does she care about our friendship so much that she’s not willing to take a chance?” or “why does she only see me as friend” then chances are you failed at communicating to her what your intentions were at the beginning, this post will offer you some insight and possibly answers those questions.