I have a great number of things to thank my mother for teaching me as I grew up. You see she was a Psychologist, and a public speaking teacher, and for a number of years as a young boy I was home-schooled by her. These days were tough for me, as while other children were at primary school passing notes to each other, mucking about, playing at recess with each other, my mum was making sure that I was getting the best education she could provide with much more focus on the work side of things than the play.

Unlike many home schooled kids however, my mum was very intelligent and knew how teach and we covered a range of subjects that most primary school children never came near. First to mind is Public Speaking. My mum has won numerous awards for public speaking, I can still envisage the trophies and certificates she used to have. She believed that if she could give her son the ability to me an amazing speaker, that he would later use that skill set to achieve great things. I don’t think she had ‘picking up women’ in mind as a potential career path, but I am successful as a result and for that I have her to thank.

So why all this personal history? Well, there is one hugely powerful technique I learned to utilize to improve my public speaking skills, and that I have gone on to use with public speaking students of my own as well as School of Attraction clients who wanted to be more successful with women.

You can say a lot of things about the Pick Up Industry and its evolution over the years, but you can never accuse it of not being multi-cultural. I honestly can’t think of many countries in the world that haven’t been represented by at least one of my students in the past.

More than that, I notice the obvious trend of men wanting cultural diversity in their taste in women. I get Indian guys wanting nothing to do with Indian girls, Asian guys only wanting White women, I get white guys wanting Asian women, I get Northern European guys wanting black women, I get South American Guys wanting Eastern European Women, and Eastern European Guys Wanting Australian Women, and every other possible variation of the above. From a genetic variance viewpoint this makes perfect biological sense, if you mate with a genetically distant woman, then your offspring will likely benefit from a greater diversity of immune response and have a better chance of survival.

So the one concern that I hear from a lot of men is “What role does race play?”. A lot of guys can feel insecure dating well outside of their own racial type when they first start approaching these women. Some guys think women are racist, some guys assume women just aren’t interested in their race, and I can clearly see why that belief exists, but today I’d like to cover the controversial topic of race in the Pickup Industry.