The following is based on my own previous experiences and findings. I’m sure there may be writings or whatever on this topic but I think its nice to reinforce the ideas.
How many times have we all heard “I doesn’t matter, just get over there and talk. it doesn’t matter what you say”? I definitely agree with the idea. But say that to someone new to our community and watch their face go blank and say “yeah but I still dont know what I’m goin to do”. I am all for being as natural as I can. I also believe that thinking about what you’re going to say in the future can definitely clog up your thoughts for the present conversation. But I love the idea of always having fall back ideas / structures in case the conversation isn’t moving the direction I want it to.Read More